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livesync-bridge pushing but never pulling — one direction of a two-way sync can die silently

Environment: two livesync-bridge instances (Raspberry Pi, mini PC) · CouchDB 3.3 on the mini PC · tailscale · Obsidian Self-hosted LiveSync

TL;DR

A bridge can lose one direction and keep the other. When uploads work but nothing comes down, counting events per direction in the log is the fastest check:

# <couchdb-peer>, <storage-peer> = the peers[].name values in dat/config.json
docker logs <bridge-container> 2>&1 \
  | grep -cE "\[<couchdb-peer>\] -->|\[<storage-peer>\] <--"

The peer names are whatever you configured. With our peer names, that becomes:

docker logs obsidian-livesync-bridge 2>&1 | grep -cE "\[obsidiandb\] -->|\[pi-vault\] <--"

On a container that's been up for a while, a count of 0 means pull is dead — on a freshly recreated container the log is empty anyway, and a stretch with no remote changes gives zero too. And an empty error log doesn't mean it's alive. Keep the square brackets: leave them out and a perfectly healthy bridge also returns 0, which points you at exactly the wrong conclusion.

  • Recovery is a container restart — but reconcile the two sides before you restart, or the stale copy can overwrite the current one.
  • The real damage isn't "sync stopped." It's that stale files get uploaded as if they were current. Edit anything on a device whose pull is dead and its outdated copy goes up and overwrites what other devices wrote.
  • I never established the cause. Beyond "restarting brings pull back," I don't have anything solid.

The symptom

I'm writing this from the operational records kept at the time rather than re-running any of it today. The background for the whole series is in Self-hosted Obsidian instead of Notion.

This was shortly after the sync hub moved from a Raspberry Pi to a mini PC. CouchDB runs on the mini PC, and there's a bridge on each machine.

The symptom had two halves.

One — edits made on the phone or the desktop never reached the Pi. Opening a vault file there showed content from days earlier.

Two — edits made on the Pi went up fine. Which made "sync is broken" an awkward thing to say, since half of it clearly wasn't.

Then the actual damage showed up. The diagnosis and the repair in this post happened on the Pi too, and the one pushing stale files up was me. That editing was not occasional, either — a session on that machine writes notes as it works. Every time I touched a vault file there, the outdated copy I was holding went up to CouchDB and overwrote what other devices had written. A line deleted on the phone would quietly come back some time later. From the outside it looks like "I deleted this, why does it keep returning?"

The misdiagnosis: it looked like a permissions problem

There genuinely was a permissions problem on the Pi. Forty-four folders of bot-generated video notes were owned by root:root, and the bridge (running as uid 1000) couldn't touch them.

So that became the first theory. Handing ownership back to the Pi user cleared the permission errors, and those folders started syncing.

Pull was still dead. The permissions issue was real and entirely separate — not the cause of this. When a fix doesn't move the symptom, that hypothesis is finished, and I spent longer than I should have letting go of this one.

Diagnosis: counting log lines per direction puts pull at zero

The bridge logs which peer a change flowed from and to. With our peer names, the two directions look like this:

  • push (filesystem → CouchDB): [pi-vault] --> … followed by [obsidiandb] <-- saved
  • pull (CouchDB → filesystem): [obsidiandb] --> … followed by [pi-vault] <-- saved

Counting them gave zero pull events. No error, no warning — that direction had simply stopped.

The bridge on the mini PC was healthy in both directions at the same time. That one shares a host with CouchDB, so nothing about it crosses the network. In practice that made the mini PC's copy the authoritative one and the Pi the machine that had fallen behind.

That's where the investigation stops. My guess at the time was that the _changes feed running over tailscale HTTPS had dropped at some point and never re-established, but I didn't keep anything that would settle it. What's established is narrower: restarting the container brings pull back.

The fix: reconcile first, restart second

Restarting straight away is the wrong move, because the Pi's outdated files can get pushed up the moment the bridge wakes. The order matters.

Step 1 — see the difference first (dry run). Compare only the markdown files on the Pi against the mini PC:

rsync -rtcn --delete \
  --include='*/' --include='*.md' --exclude='*' \
  mini:~/Obsidian/HoradricCube/ ~/Obsidian/HoradricCube/

mini is an ssh alias for the authoritative machine. -n makes it a dry run, and -c compares by checksum rather than timestamps, so a skewed clock can't fool it. Note the filters: this only looks at .md files. Attachments and anything under .obsidian/ are out of scope here — reconcile those separately if your vault carries them.

Step 2 — stop the bridge.

docker stop obsidian-livesync-bridge

Leaving it watching during the reconcile means it picks the changes up and pushes them, which is the opposite of the intent.

Step 3 — bring the Pi in line with the authoritative copy. Same command without -n and without --delete:

rsync -rtc \
  --include='*/' --include='*.md' --exclude='*' \
  mini:~/Obsidian/HoradricCube/ ~/Obsidian/HoradricCube/

Dropping --delete is the important part: this step creates and updates, and never removes, so nothing can be lost in it. The only deletions the dry run had flagged were empty directories.

Step 4 — start the bridge again.

docker start obsidian-livesync-bridge

The restart brought pull back. The bridge scans for offline changes on startup, and since step 3 had already matched the content, every one of them came through as Skipped (Same) — which is how the log shows that nothing in this restart overwrote anyone's work.

Step 5 — verify the round trip. One direction isn't enough:

  • change a line on the mini PC → does the Pi receive it (pull)
  • change one on the Pi → does the mini PC receive it (push)

Both passed. In total, 48 files were reconciled, and the reconcile itself lost nothing.

The part that was actually dangerous

Losing one direction is worse than losing both.

When sync dies entirely you notice quickly, because nothing moves. When only push survives, the system keeps working. The machine that's fallen behind has no idea it has, and it keeps offering its stale copy as though it were current.

That made it worse in this stack, because a session on the Pi was editing notes automatically. The more diligent the automation, the more often the outdated copy goes up.

Edits overwritten this way should in principle be recoverable from CouchDB's revision history, while that history lasts. Automatic compaction runs by default, and once it has been through, the bodies of old revisions are gone. And I never worked out which edits had been overwritten, nor pulled any of them back from a revision — so recovery from the revision history was never attempted here.

Takeaways / checklist

  • Two-way sync dies one direction at a time. Don't ask "is sync working" — ask "is it going up" and "is it coming down" separately. Counting log events per direction is the cheapest way to answer.
  • No errors doesn't mean alive. Pull here stopped without raising a single exception. Evidence of life is a recent event, not an empty error log.
  • Never restart before reconciling. Waking the machine that's behind lets its old files overwrite current ones. Match by content (rsync -c) first, and leave the delete flag off in that step so the reconcile itself can't lose anything.
  • Verify recovery in both directions. Check only one and you'll end up confirming the direction you just fixed.
  • If it can happen once, it needs to be caught automatically. Nobody is going to sit there counting log lines — which is what the next post in this series is about.